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1 Simple Tip to Calm Your Nerves

By Matt Jones 6 Comments

We all know that adrenaline is a double-edged sword. Sometimes, it’s just what we need to achieve peak performance. Other times, it’s simply debilitating. When you give a presentation and feel the adrenaline pumping through your body, how’s it going to affect you? Will it give you a positive energy boost and help you deliver with passion and charisma? Or will it make your heart race, your hands shake and your mind cloud over? If it does the latter, how can you take control? How can calm yourself and refocus on the task at hand?

Breathe

The mind affects the body. And the body affects the mind. Breathing is something that we can do both automatically and deliberately. It’s also connected to numerous other processes in the body which we have little direct control over, e.g. heart rate, blood pressure, nervous system activity (fight/flight vs. rest/digest) etc. It’s therefore the perfect thing to focus on when you feel overwhelmed. Your breathing is something you can easily take control of. And in doing so, you’ll start a positive chain reaction that helps you compose yourself so you can prepare to perform at your best.

The breathing pattern I’m about to share with you will help you reduce stress, calm your nerves and (thanks to improved blood oxygenation and circulation) think more clearly. The next time you’re feeling anxious before a presentation (or any high stakes situation), find a quiet place and do some “Box Breathing”.

What is Box Breathing?

screen-shot-2016-09-24-at-22-39-01It’s a simple breathing pattern in which each phase of your breathing cycle is done for equal time. For example:

  • Breathe in for 5 seconds
  • Hold for 5 seconds
  • Breathe out for 5 seconds
  • Hold for 5 seconds
  • (Repeat)

 

You can adjust the times as long as you keep each of the four phases – each side of the box – the same length.

While you do your box breathing, place your hands on your stomach. You want to breathe deep in to your stomach as opposed to just filling up your chest (which we tend to do if we’re not relaxed). You want to feel your stomach expanding as you breathe in.

Continue box breathing for one or two minutes (or longer if you wish) and you’ll notice yourself feeling much calmer and more focussed. Now that you’re composed, you can prepare to give your best presentation!

 

Filed Under: Tips, Uncategorized Tagged With: anxiety, box breathing, mental preparation, nerves, stress

Comments

  1. Aim Pichaya says

    28/09/16 at 1:31 pm

    Tried it and it worked so well, especially when I kept my eyes closed during the box breathing.
    Thank you for the tip! 😀

    Reply
    • Matt Jones says

      30/09/16 at 1:27 pm

      Glad you find it useful 🙂

      Reply
  2. Thanapon(Toby) says

    28/09/16 at 1:43 pm

    It is pretty easy and simple to practice, but most of the times we forget to do so. ?Let’s practice regulary so that it becomes a habit.

    Reply
    • Matt Jones says

      30/09/16 at 1:31 pm

      Indeed! It only takes a minute or two and can be a huge help when composing yourself just before a presentation – or any high-stakes, high performance event! It’s commonly used by elite athletes, military personnel and CEOs who need to hold their nerve and stay in the zone.

      Reply
  3. Phil says

    29/09/16 at 12:56 pm

    Thanks Matt.
    I have two big presentations coming up in October and will try the box breathing

    Reply
    • Matt Jones says

      30/09/16 at 1:33 pm

      Good luck! Please tell us how it worked for you 🙂

      Reply

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